We pick emotionally unavailable partners, because it safeguards staying emotionally unavailable ourselves. It's a safe choice, because we won’t actually be challenged to reveal our vulnerabilities. We can hide behind being the more “available” one, and present as if we are emotionally open; when in fact, we are equally frightened of intimacy just like those we label as unavailable.
~ Alan Robarge
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