relationships

Often in life we are presented with opportunities of fast growing and awareness while sharing and being surprised with unknown parts of ourselves made visible by others we share relationships with.

Several notes are played, like guitar strings being sharpened...not to tight or they would break, not to soft or they would not play right... until we tune ourselves with our most inner truth. Each of us has his unique sound, that creates harmony or not with the other part involved. From that coming together a Third entity is created that surpasses the sum of the parts. Nourishing that arising Love can be more rewarding to the each of the lovers than to satisfy their own individual desires.

To open our hearts and let go of 'cultural' and 'religious' fear-based believe sistems that dont allow us to breath, is a step to get us closer to our truth, and enable us to express and live out our birth right Freedom. Sometimes however we could end up in the other extreme, trying to prove our freedom or trying to show the other that we are free by again living a New-fear based believe sistem where the individual sensitivities are not respected(because iam afraid i would somehow loose my freedom if i did). At the present time for me the ultimate chalenge in a relationship is to find the place where both breath lighter, in complete honesty and trust, the place where that Third entity is respected and nourished...and that place, depending on the musicians, could be anywhere in the relationship sprectrum mentioned in the beginning of the tread (well....except for the cheating part....that one is just wrong!)

Indeed "there are no ready-made answers or formulas if you want to live in Freedom."