Boundaries

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I have these here for me

even though you think they

are some reflection on you

and maybe in a way, they are

because your obliviousness

is the linchpin of this measure

My boundaries are protection

from the emotional interruption

that you cause in my life

and when I say you, it’s not just you

because so many people

try to cross a line that they know

is drawn in the sand for a reason

If you are confused about boundaries

it’s likely because you don’t have any

and that is why you are unprotected

in the wild of everyday life

allowing others to suck your blood

and sap your energy

I don’t feel bad about my boundaries,

I feel proud about my boundaries

because the confidence of self-care

is the mindful practice I need

to make the back half all it should be

and

I am fine with you not being along

for this wonderful ride

Jonathan Greene